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Ms. Blue said. She also wrote a book on play-party etiquette. “Consent is the cornerstone of any well-produced, healthy and fun sex party,” she said. “This makes it safer and more fun than an average nightclub on any given day.”
Polyamory Works for Them


Effy has become a polyamorous-identified sex educator and relationship coach who prides herself on her party prep. “preparing with your stuff allows you to prepare mentally.” she says.
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“Don’t be the person to break up the orgy,” says sex and relationship coach Effy Blue. Blue has developed a device to ensure guest safety as well as enjoyment.
How not to blow your first orgy
Besides being FUN, sex parties are the perfect place to explore your sexuality, meet like-minded people, and be immersed in consent culture. But they can be tricky to navigate.
This book, written by relationship coach Effy Blue, with an all-femme advisor team, will address all the questions dancing in your head:
- How do I find a party?
- How do I prepare?
- What do I wear?
- What about hygiene and health?
- And much more 😉


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